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The actual conversation )
Context explanation:

(1) Jeff and I both live in the Balti-Wash area, are both long-time members of the Baltimore Science Fiction Society, and our “home convention” is Balticon.

(2) Dale *Farmer* is from the Boston area, but is staying at Jeff’s house currently for some short-term contract work. Due to said work, he cannot attend this year’s Balticon as he usually would, but he is still providing some equipment for it. I am familiar with him in that context, but Jeff is not.

(3) Dale *Arnold* is: the person who got me into BSFS, the con chair for this year’s Balticon, and the most logical first name association for Jeff to make in this situation. (The poor guy is probably also quite puzzled as to what was going on just now.... a terrible thing to do to a Club Pessimist!)

(4) Where the problem arose: to me, Dale Arnold is actually *Steve* Arnold – i.e., older brother of my high school boyfriend Don, and more to the point, the eldest son of another Dale Arnold. Thus he is known as “Steve” inside his family - thus I was introduced to him many many many years ago - and thus he is still filed in my brain.
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This idea came via Dave Hogg,
who got it in turn from dmmaus.

Rules:

  1. Start just outside your front door.

  2. Take 100 steps.

  3. Take a photo of whatever looks interesting.

  4. Take another 100 steps, take another photo.

  5. Repeat until you have walked at least 1000 steps, more if you wish.

  6. Post photos with comments.


Tips:
* Try to mix it up a bit. Streetscapes, landscapes, interiors, candid portraits, close ups, etc.
* Bend the rules if you want.

I often mention my walk to work
in the mornings in my LJ, so I hope
this view of some of the things I see
may be an interesting window for you
into a part of my time and space...
Links to pictures, captions, and explanations... )
netpositive: (sato)
I connect with the Universe on many levels.
    I am grateful to you who are my friends.
    You tender me your advice, support, concern, sharing.
    You teach me new things and help me rediscover old ones.
    You give me your laughter, but you understand my tears.
    You are sound in the darkness, and a hand in isolation.
    I may not always reach out or listen closely,
    but I know who's out there.

With friends you grow wings.
Alone
you are a single feather in disgrace.
With them you master the wind
but alone,
you're blown in all directions.

-Rumi
netpositive: (stojko)
I know my thoughts create my reality.
I focus on what I want, rather than what I don't want.
I focus on what I have, rather than what I can't have.

    I have the house to myself* tonight.

    After the last couple of weeks here (working extra
    long hours, dealing with lotsa financial stuff, going
    to DC Lindy Exchange events, having houseguests, etc.)
    the temptation is strong to go home and lock myself in
    until tomorrow morning. Or maybe even afternoon.

    I could pick up some raw kitfo and eat in the side yard.
    I could take a long hot bath and read by candlelight.
    I could watch my new videotape I've been longing to see.
    I could play music. After midnight. Loud. Really loud.

    Or I could miss people, eat light, and go out dancing.

    Lots of choices. I like. Don't know quite what I'll do yet.
    But first things first - first, I have to leave work.

    * well, except for the cats...

I think things through. Then, I can follow my heart.
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A deep storehouse of extremely positive thinking
manifests within me in any situation of need.

    I sometimes stress out about time and money.

    Money: )
I already possess within me anything I need
to become anything I want to be.


I have a rich collection of friends who value my qualities.

I take care of myself, but I ask for help when I need it.
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Who would break a butterfly on a wheel?
The Cult, beginning of "Soul Asylum"
    It was a good enough weekend.
    I offered friendship and support as appropriate.
    I showed love and loyalty when it seemed needed.
    I did what I could to make others' lives easier.

    Oh yes, those things are valued, I know.

Not me, my precious child
The Cult, next line
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    My dad is a wonderful person.

    My dad has many laugh lines on his face,
    and often a smile or a joke on his lips.

    My dad gave me the ability to laugh and
    look at the positive side of things.

    My dad has wiry, wavy, now white hair that
    always looks like it's considering escape,
    no matter how much he brushes it down.

    My dad gave me his mother's hair. ;)

    My dad has soft, medium brown eyes that,
    even in a picture at age 8, give one the
    impression that he's going to raise hell
    once in a while - in the nicest of ways,
    of course.

    My dad gave me a twinkle in my expression
    that no camera can see.

    My dad can't walk a hundred yards in his
    home town without someone greeting him
    loudly and fondly.

    I learned from my dad how much a teacher
    gives to his students - even unknowingly,
    and even to the unknowing ones.

    My dad reads omnivorously, crafts poetry
    and now mentors a class in memoir writing.

    My dad tells everyone about his daughter.
    His daughter the librarian; his daughter
    the writer; his daughter the dancer, the
    martial artist, the householder; a busy
    daughter with her own life (but his love
    and support having always underlain it).
    I got from my dad curiosity, creativity,
    and the security of knowing I was loved.

    In his old age, my dad now has a companion
    who loves him, and gives him, a great deal.

    I learned from my dad never to shut someone
    completely out of one's life - if they're
    important to oneself, one gives what one can.

    Is my dad perfect? No, and neither am I.
    My dad has a slow but fiery temper, can be
    damn stubborn, hates to ask for help, and
    will go far too far so as not to hurt someone
    else's feelings. So he's imperfect. So am I.

    My (Leo) dad often jokes that I was his birthday
    present, as I was born on his (33rd) birthday.

    But I think I got the better of the deal, Dad.

    Because that would mean you're my present, too.
You are entitled to your opinion.

Even if it's wrong.

-my dad, with a smile
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Be true to yourself
and not follow a path
someone else chooses for you.

-Elvis Stojko

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